Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Wednesday, 26 November 2014

November 25, Reclaim the Night 2014. Wir Fordern die Nacht Zurück!




As in every year, November 25, the International Day for Eliminating Violence Against Women as declared by the United Nations is celebrated globally in various ways by different women's organizations and initiatives as the day to say Reclaim the Night. Women in different cities hold street parades to demand stop to violence against women: Dance and march, reclaim the night, because the night belongs to women, women be loud.
I found one piece of paper with interesting verses which I am retyping below. Author is not known.

"Hausarbeit verweigern, Männer putzt das Klo! Für den Feminismus sowieso!
Lasst es glitzern, lasst es krachen  - Macker ham heut nix zu lachen! HAHAHA
Gegen Sexismus in jeder Gestalt - keine Toleranz der Männergewalt!
However I dress, wherever I go, yes means yes, no means no!
Friedlich oder Militant - wichtig ist der Widerstand!
Bullen, Macker, Patriarchat - wir haben euch zum kotzen satt!
Tanzen, tanzen, tanzen - wir sind Emanzen!
Feuer und Flamme dem Patriarchat! Kampf dem Sexismus in Alltag und Staat!
Lesben, Inter, Trans und Frauen - können auf die Fresse hauen!
Mackertum, könnt ihr Euch schenken - gegen euer Rollendenken!
Zwingt die Macker in die Knie - Feminismus, Anarchie!
Kondome, Spirale - Linksradikale!
Mein Körper gehört mir! Mein Körper gehört mir! Mein Körper gehört mir!
Sexismus keine Chance geben - für ein selbstbestimmtes Leben!
We are here and we will fight! Abortion is a human right!"

(Author unknown)





Friday, 8 March 2013

Monday, 17 December 2012

RH (Reproductive Health) Bill now a law

Photo Source: philstar.com

right to life

a woman is not a pear tree
thrusting her fruit into mindless fecundity
into the world. Even pear trees bear
heavily one year and rest and grow the next.
An orchard gone wild drops few warm rotting
fruit in the grass but the trees stretch
high and wiry gifting the birds forty
feet up among inch long thorns.
Broken atavistically from the smooth wood.
A woman is not a basket you place
your buns in to keep them warm. Not a brood
hen you can slip duck eggs under.
Not the purse holding the coins of
your descendants till you spend them in wars.
Not a bank where your genes collect interest
and interesting mutations in the tainted
rain, anymore than you are.
You plant your corn and harvest
it to eat or sell. You put the lamb
in the pasture to fatten and haul it in
to butcher for chops. You slice
the mountain in two for a road and gouge
the high plains for coal and the waters
run muddy for miles and years.
Fish die but you do not call them yours
unless you wished to eat them.
Now you legislate mineral rights in a woman.
You lay claim to her pastures for grazing,
fields for growing babies likes iceburg
lettuce. You value children so dearly
that none ever go hungry, none weep
with no one to tend them when mothers
work, none lack fresh fruit,
none chew lead or cought to death and your
orphanages are empty. Every noon the best
restaurants serve poor children steaks.
At this moment at nine o'clock a partera
is performing a table top abortion on an
unwed mother in texas who can't get medicaid
any longer. In five days she will die
of tetanus and her little daughter will cry
and be taken away. Next door a husband
and wife are sticking pins in the son
they did not want. They will explain
for hours how wicked he is,
how he wants disipline.
We are all born of woman, in the rose
of the womb we suckled our mother's blood
and every baby born has a right to love
like a seedling to the sun. Every baby born
unloved, unwanted, is a bill that will come
due in twenty years with interest, an anger
that must find a target, a pain that will
beget pain. A decade downstream a child
screams, a woman falls, a synagogue is torched,
a firing squad summoned, a button
is pushed and the world burns.
I will choose what enters me, what becomes,
flesh of my flesh. Without choice, no politics,
no ethics lives. I am not your cornfield,
not your uranium mine, not your calf
for fattening, not your cow for milking.
You may not use me as your factory.
Priests and legislators do not hold
shares in my womb or my mind.
This is my body. If I give it to you
i want it back. My life
is a non-negotiable demand.

-marge piercy 
(Source: ehealthforum.com)

 (Source: Facebook cross-postings)

Friday, 9 July 2010

Wunschkinder: Status und Rolle philippinischer Frauen


Babaylan Europe Training in Paris Photo@Mary Lou H.W.

Bevor die Spanier kamen, sahen Status und Rolle philippinischer
Frauen wesentlich anders als heute. Männliche wie weibliche
Säuglinge wurden mit gleicher Sorgfalt aufgezogen (Valladolid,1975); sie wurden unabhängig von ihrem Geschlecht akzeptiert. Frauen waren ebenso
erbberechtigt wie ihre Brüder und konnten sowohl vor wie
nach ihrer Heirat ihre Eigentumsrechte wahrnehmen. Vielfach war
die Frau weit mehr als nur Partnerin ihres Mannes; sie war
Familienoberhaupt. Sie verwaltete ihren Besitz unabhängig vom
Mann, konnte Verträge abschließen und Geschäfte tätigen, ohne
ihn um Rat fragen zu müssen (The Asian, 1971). Sie war ihrem
Mann ebenbürtig, behielt ihren Mädchennamen und erhielt die
gleichen Ehrungen wie er (Alzona, 1934). Ihr Mann fragte sie im
Blick auf seine eigenen Angelegenheiten um Rat.
Bei Unternehmungen und Verträgen suchte er ihre Zustimmung.

Photo@Mary Lou H.W.

Nach Berichten des spanischen Historiographen Loarca konnten
Filipinas im 17.Jahrhundert sogar allein entscheiden, ob sie ein
Kind wollten oder nicht - auch außerhalb einer Ehe. Und wenn es
ihnen notwendig erschien, konnten sie sich scheiden lassen
(Castillo, Marie C.,o.J.).
Auch auf dem Gebiet der Politik und der Religion war die Frau dem
Mann völlig ebenbürtig. Alte malaiische Herrscher wie Marikudo,
der Häuptling der Panay, fragten vor wichtigen politischen
Entscheidungen ihre Frauen um Rat. Wenn ein männlicher Erbe
fehlte, konnten Frauen ihren Männern oder Vätern als
Stammesführerinnen nachfolgen.
Auch waren es vornehmlich Frauen, die in der animistichen
Religion priesterliche Funktionen ausübten. Sie waren die
Zeremonienmeisterinnen, pflegten den Kontakt mit den Geistern
und heilten die Kranken.

(Photo Taken from Internet.Author Unknown)

Als die Spanier kamen, ums uns unter dem Vorwand der Christianisierung
eine koloniale Kultur überzustülpen, verschlechterte sich die Lage
der Frauen. Das spanische, vom römischen abgeleitete Rechtssytem
betonte die männliche Überlegenheit. Märchen von weiblicher Hiflosigkeit,
die auf männlichen Edelmut angewiesen ist, wurden in Umlauf
gebracht. Das spanische Recht schusterte eine neue Ethik für die
Frauen zusammen. Ab jetzt gehörte sie ins Haus. Geschäfte durfte
sie nicht mehr ohne Wissen und Zustimmung des Mannes tätigen
und über ihren eigenen Besitz nicht mehr verfügen.
Man ermunterte sie, passiv und fromm zu sein.

Während der amerikanischen Besatzungszeit hat sich an diesen
gesellschaftlichen Bedingungen nicht viel geändert.
Während der gesamten Kolonialepoche spielten Frauen bei
Massenbewegungen und Aufständen eine bedeutende Rolle - auch
währen der philippinischen Revolution von 1896.
Die ursprüngliche Kultur der vorspanischen Zeit fiel der
aggressiven Kolonialkultur zum Opfer. Die Sozialethik, die Sitten
und Traditionen, denen wir heute anhängen, sind die, die von den
Kolonisatoren gebilligt wurden. Die aufgepropfte Kultur sowie die
Übernahme fremden Sitten und Lebensgewohnheiten ebneten den
Weg für die ökonomischen und politischen Strukturen des
Westens. Diese wiederum haben die bereits vorhandene soziale
Ungleichheit noch verschärft.

Heute leidet die Mehrheit der philippinischen Frauen unter der
gleichen Ungerechtigkeit wie ihre philippinischen Brüder. Es ist
eine Ironie des Schicksals, daß die derzeitigen Emanzipations-
bewegungen der Frauen genau die Errungenschaften erstreben,
deren sich ihre Ahninnen erfreuten. Fast sieht es so aus, als ob
die Kolonisatoren die Filipina auf eine lange Umlaufbahn
gebracht haben, auf der sie am Ende wieder da ankommt, wo sie
vorher schon einmal gewesen ist.
Wenn die Filipina ihren Kampf, ihre Geschichte und die wahren
Auswirkungen des westlichen Einflusses auf ihr Land und auf sie
selbst wirklich begreift, kann sie ihre eigene Befreiung in
Angriff nehmen.

Übersetzung: Klaus Schmidt
Original Text from : Friends of the Filipino People,
Maryland Ave. Ne. Washington, DC 20002.

From Babaylan Germany/Philippine Women`s Forum Archives

Tuesday, 15 April 2008

Sunday, 9 March 2008

IWD Cologne 2008




In a society where the rights and
potential of women are constrained,
no man can be truly free.
He may have power,
but he will not have freedom.
Mary Robinson, President of Ireland

You are the architect of your personal experience.
Shirley Maclaine

Be critical. Women have the right to say: "This is
surface, this falsifies reality, this degrades".
Tillie Olsen

Women are always being tested...but ultimately, each of
us has to define who we are individually and then do the
very best job we can to grow into that.
Hillary Rodham Clinton

Never retract, never explain, never apologize...get
the thing done and let them howl.
Nellie McClery

I only want to lose to bathroom scales.
MarLou Baylanes

Yesterday is a cancelled check
Tomorrow is a promisory note
Today is cash in hand; spend it wisely.
Anonymous

Happy International Women's Day 2008!

Thursday, 14 February 2008

Valentine



Valentine

Not a red rose or a satin heart.

I give you an onion.
It is a moon wrapped in brown paper.
It promises light
like the careful undressing of love.

Here.
It will blind you with tears
like a lover.
It will make your reflection
a wobbling photo of grief.

I am trying to be truthful.

Not a cute card or a kissogram.

I give you an onion.
Its fierce kiss will stay on your lips,
possessive and faithful
as we are
for as long as we are.

Take it.
Its platinum loops shrink to a wedding-ring,
if you like.
Lethal.
Its scent will cling to your fingers,
cling to your knife.

Carol Ann Duffy

Valentine's Day in Alemanya
Thursday, 2008 February 14
Weather: Foggy as in Foggy
Not Love
but condensed milk in the air
Hubby still sleeps
We have a date
if the weather will permit
to see the film
Charlie Wilson's War
Nope, we are not getting
romantic because it is Valentine's Day
It is Film Day - on Thursday
movies are cheaper.
In the meantime
will look for another soul mate
who thinks Valentine's Day in Germany
is commercial as in commercial
but where in the world
do you find uncommercialized Valentine's Day
from chocolates to gift of special rates of tanning studios
so women get as commercial as you can
it is Valentine's Day
go back to the classics
coffee, tarts and cream
shopping, window shopping.

Saturday, 8 December 2007

Christmas Wishes per Web



from Maya: Christmas greetings.
Posteingang

2. Dez. (Vor 1 Tag)

Give me a smile
for Christmas
oh, so nostalgic
for beginnings
oh, to forget
the folly
and ragings,
lost the innocence
of our birth,

Give me a smile
this Christmas
the skies
are pale in Paris
the chill
in our wombs,
the waning passions
and worry
our dreams,

Give me a smile,
this Christmas,
forget politics
and commerce,
let our Christmas
remember the birth,
the innocence
the healing, the
unfearful loving,
the scent of myrrh,
and hope lighting
the stars, oh,

Give me a smile
for Christmas..

From Maria Thelma

Monday, 2 July 2007

Book Launching in Quezon City on July 4, 2007

 
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The Philippine Social Science Council
and the
Philippine Migration Research Network (PMRN)
cordially invite you to a
Pre-Launch
of PMRN's 7th Publication
In De Olde World: Views of Filipino Migrants in Europe
on
Wednesday, 04. July 2007, 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm
at the Frank Lynch Resource Center
Philippine Social Science Center
Commonwealth Ave. Diliman, Quezon City

Congratulations to Ms. Filomenita Hoegsholm,
for editing this important documentation on
migration of Filipinas and Filipinas to
Europe. The editor is a member of Babaylan
Interim Committee, Babaylan, The Philippine Women's
Network in Europe.
For further information on the book, please email me
pinayskaleidoscope@gmail.com or
babaylanes@gmx.de

Monday, 25 June 2007

Handy turns 15

Just learned that Handy turns 15 years today while watching
TV. Handy to the Germans and mobile to the non-Germans?

My first mobile would not fit that name Handy, though. It was
actually a mini walkie-talkie and an object of much teasing
when I visited the home country once with it. "Aba, kaskasan ng yelo
pa yan model ninyo pala sa Europa!" "Hoy, you're still using that
ice-shaver model from Europe," was the favorite one-liner tease.
Or these remarks complete with introductory praises:
"Magaling to. Maraming games to." This is excellent. It has many
functions, many games. You can use your mobile for truth or
consequence game, or it is not so heavy, just throw it away!

I think I have not thrown my first Handy yet. It is somewhere in our
flat, maybe in the cellar together with those stuffs waiting to be
sorted out:trinkets, magazines, copies of reports, marmalade
glasses,gloves, baking pans, electric typewriter and bamboo poles.
Yes, we have two bamboo poles imported from China keeping watch
over other boxes of stuffs also waiting to be sorted out in the cellar.
"Puedeng panglitson,sa tutuo lang."

But back to the Handy's turning 15 today. It reminds me of our
networking which is also celebrating its 15th anniversary this 2007
with the theme Gender, Migration and Development. Maybe we could
discuss on the forms of our communication through these years
from telephone, emails, cellphones, chatting and Skyping and their
role to the present situation of the network. More inspiration and
concern with faster communication or more distraction?

The TV moderator commented that the Handy is still very much in
its "youthful" year and it shows so much promise of development.

Hallo! Hear that, dear women in our network.

Thursday, 21 June 2007

Basic Women's Orientation Training in Germany

 
 
 
 
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A Weekend of Basic Women’s Orientation Training in Germany

15 Filipinas representing the different European country member
organizations of Babaylan, The Philippine Women’s Network in Europe
participated in this year’s Basic Women’s Orientation Training held in
Kohlhof near Mannheim, Germany on June 1-4, 2007. The weekend
training was organized by Babaylan Interim Committee.

The participants shared experiences and discussed issues concerning gender while enjoying some alternative group exercises in determining factors which influence gender and gender bias i.e. what attributes are associated with the word BABAE
and LALAKE,what is gender stereotyping, commodification and
marginalization of women, reproduction and production and sexual
division of labour.

As part of the year long celebration of the 15th anniversary of Babaylan Europe, the training coincided with the meeting of the country representatives of the network. They discussed the result of congress and assessment of the network held in Landquart, Switzerland on September 22-24, 2006 and planned a series of activities to be carried both by the local and Europe-wide members for the year 2007-2008.

After the seminar, the participants visited the shrine of Dr. Jose Rizal in Wilhemsfeld and the city of Heidelberg.

Babaylan Network is planning to hold its bi-annual Conference and Congress with the Theme Gender, Migration and Development this coming October either in Switzerland or Germany.

For interested Filipinas, please contact local Babaylan in your country or email:
babaylanes@gmx.de

Sunday, 10 June 2007

Religion, Spirituality and Social Responsibility

With the official closing of the Evangelical Kirchentag
in Cologne today, I am posting some thoughts and photos
I took during a day visit to some programme and fora:









"Coming together as friends in religious contexts requires
respect for forms of worship different than our own.
These differences keep heart and mind open.
They are soul food.
If we are to find a path of our own, it helps to
know and appreciate the paths of others.
To realize that the household of God is indeed big
enough for all gives everyone room to live and grow.
The idea that there is only one right way home, one path
for all, creates judgment and separation.
Women's spirituality is about connectedness."
Joan Borysenko

Sunday, 13 May 2007

Women Rule the World




EuroVision Song Contest

This is the English version of the
German entry to this year's Eurovision
Singing Competition which was held in Helsinki
last May 12, the eve before Mother's Day
in Germany.We have one woman chancellor but
the song placed only 19th. Lugi daw ang Alemanya
according to the local headlines the next day.

Frauen Regier'n Die Welt
Women Rule the World

Even in school the other boys would laugh
But it didn't matter to me a bit
She was so sweet and her legs were so long
I went to her ballet class for almost a year

When I found out she wanted to save the environment
I sewed "No thanks"on my parka
Back then she didn't care about any of that
But since then I know who rules the world

The way they talk and the way they stand
And how they look at you
Your wallet and your heart open right up
And then you buy a ring and a mink
All it takes is a sexy glance
To make you change your politics
It's not a boss of an action hero
A country or Mafia money
It's women who rule the world

They pull out all they stops,
from flirtatious to naive
As babies, they've already got their father
under control
They give you everything when they want something
And you bang your head against the wall when they pout

You make a fool of yourself and take abuse,
Just so the chicks of glance your way one time
They build up Beckham and topple Clinton
Without even starting a political party

The way they talk and the way they stand...

Comment ko: I really did not stay at home to watch
this yearly spectacular in May but rather went to see
a film. But I had seen this singer performing
in a German television last IWD, International Women's
Day this entry song. Instant Comment: Ay Sos!
Nangaya na naman ang mga Aleman. Talo 'to tiyak, I
instantly thought. So talo nga si Swinging Cicero.
I saw the semi-finals (in tv of course) and I was for
Hungary, Serbia and the song with the dancing Turkish women
impressed me. I really go for ethnic stuffs, they show
somehow a distinctive culture and not only copies
of clips we normally see in N-TV. It gets boring somehow.
Some entries, I thought they must be in the wrong stage; this
is a singing competition and not a search for the biggest
skupltured breasts and best swinging Hospitality Girls!
Well, for German Cicero...he could pass for a model for Persil
washing powder.

And the Winner is....from Serbia, and I think she really has
a voice sans swinging and décolletage.

Marija Serifovic
Song: Molitva

I'm wide awake
An empty bed drives my dreams away
Life melts like ice
Disappears in the twinkling of an eye

I'm losing my mind
Pushing reality out of sight
Our lips are touching softly
You're the one I believe blindly

I walk around like crazy
Falling in love frightens me
Days are like wounds
Countless and hard to get through

Prayer...
It burns my sore lips like a fire
Prayer...
Thy name is something I admire
Heavens knows just as well as I do
So many times I have cried over you
Heaven knows just as well as I do
I pray and live only for you

I can't lie to God
as I kneel down and pray
You're the love of my life
That's the only thing I can say

Tuesday, 8 May 2007

For Birthday Celebrants 8th of May



...this marvelous moment for women, they should
remember that one of the gifts they have is that they
remained so very close to the personal life, and that the
qualities that were discovered in the personal life,
the value of human life, the value of tenderness,
attentiveness to others' moods, the need for compassion
and pity and understanding, the things that women
practice everyday in their daily lives, in their
small kingdoms, are enormously important.
Anais Nin

Happy Birthday, Dear Hermie, Dear Edith,
Wish you many returns of lovely years!
Cheers! Baci!

Thursday, 15 March 2007

Pinays Celebrate International Women's Day




(photos by ML)
In keeping with their yearly celebration of the IWD
International Women's Day (March 8), Philippine Women's
Forum e.V. (Babaylan Germany) and Babaylanes Internationales
held an information evening with a film showing of
Lualhati Bautista's story "Bata, Bata Paano Ka Ginawa"
at the Internationaleszentrum Stolzestrasse in Cologne,
Germany on March 9, 2007.
The film Bata, Bata Paano Ka Ginawa, starring
Vilma Santos, Albert Martinez, Ariel Rivera, Raymond
Bagatsing, Carlo Aquino and Serena Dalrymple and
directed by Chino Rono, tells of the story of Lea, played
by Vilma Santos a Filipina torn between her belief in herself
as an individual who has her own right to her own decision
and the expectation and tradition of Philippine society
regarding women as mothers and partners.
'If I am were a person who has no own identity, I would
never be a good mother,' declared Lea to her ex-husband
as the two searched for the reason for their failed marriage.
At the end of the film, Lea while giving a talk during
a graduation ceremony, she concluded: "The question how
the children are made is not really difficult. The most difficult
question is for parents to know how they would raise
up their children as decent, just and humane beings. For if
the children are molded as such, then we could offer them
a decent, just and humane society. We should all reach
for the stars and make our collective dreams come true."

The women agreed to hold another gathering to talk
about the film and specifically on the topic of Filipino
women and their rights and obligations as well as
privileges as mothers, partners and above all as thinking
individuals.
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Saturday, 10 March 2007